Wedding ceremonies are on common ground with Civil War Re-enactments. Outdated and overblown. In this day and age, though, it is as if the Confederacy is in the ascendancy; with something like two-thirds of all marriages sinking like the Merrimack, the losers have the majority of the soldiers. What does that mean? Nothing, but fewer and fewer get to wear the brilliant blues of the Army of the Potomac. Or even the bright greens and reds of the Volunteer New York Zouave regiments.